Watch it with the original song: vimeo.com/646880051
First two phases of a break-up:
1 - Desperate for answers.
The drive to know why the break up has happened is consuming and can come at the expense of rational thoughts and behaviors. You must understand why this happened, maybe beyond anyone’s ability to explain it.
The pain, disorganisation, and confusion can become all you think about, or talk about. But initially, you remain driven to understand what happened, at any cost. The desperation to make sense of something so jarring compels you to debate friends, family, coworkers, even strangers, about why the relationship ended, while you justify to them the reasons it shouldn’t have as if convincing them it is equal to convincing your ex.
2 - Denial.
It feels like you’ve put everything you are into this relationship. It’s been your world, your life. You cannot accept that it’s over.
You funnel every last hope into saving it, even at the expense of your well-being. You postpone your need to grieve its end because it’s just too painful to face. In so doing, you temporarily derail the grieving process by replacing it with unrealistically inflated hope that the relationship can still be salvaged.
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Multifandom/multicouples
Edited by: ilselientje
Program: Sony Vegas Pro 13.0
Colouring: BlueLand
Song: At the end of the video
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